Tuesday, January 17, 2012
In my opinion, I feel a domestic violence relationship is not necessary. Females say that "It's hard to leave", but if you walked in it then you can walk out of it. If you let a male tell you what to do within a month or so of your relationship then leave him. No women/young adult should allow a guy to hit her. Abusive relationships can be physical or mental. Dating violence and abuse can nlead to negative sexual health outcomes. If you are being abused, find someone trustworthy to talk too, work on positive things and better yourself as a person. Yes, it will be hard for you to leave but if you get tired of it move on. Whether you're in a verbal, physical or mental relationship, move on because in order for a relationship to be a relationship the two of you have to communicate about your feelings. If you have a friend that is being abused; tell them not to blame theirself but to create a safe plan for them to leave with, and stick to the plan. Also encourage your friend. When you finally decide to get out of the relationship, let people know the relationship is over and get a restaining order. It would also be wise to take someone with you when you go places. Sometimes you can get help from someone who has been in the situation. GET HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!